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LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thanks 🙂 LikeLike Reply Reblogged this on mailvarun92 and commented: 🙂 LikeLike Reply Thank you so much for the reblog 🙂 and follow LikeLike Reply Reblogged this on forgottenmeadows and commented: I had a rough day yesterday due to a person questioning my integrity…Being an honest person and a person who puts integrity first I was mad and upset of such an accusation…but I got through it with the support of my loved ones and let that person know how wrong they were… Needless to say I will not be interacting much with that said person anymore…Seeing this quote this morning made me smile 🙂 Question to my friends here…how do you handle wrongful accusation that is hurtful, baseless and does not at all represent you? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Neha, I feel for you. I agree it is quite shocking when someone acts like this especially when you are walking the Higher Road. How do I handle this? Several ways, depending on who the person is. First way, I stand up for myself and state the Truth thereby negating the lie. I go on to say, it is the choice of that person whether he/she continues to believe what was just said, or to listen to what I say is Truth. Another way I handle it … I immediately ask that person why he/she has said that and upon what circumstance that person is speaking of. If there is any misunderstanding, I want to clear it up right away. There is a third way I handle this … I say nothing, pray for that person in LOVE as I leave the presence of that person. Hope this helps. (((HUGS))) Amy LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you so much my friend that helps and yes I did stand up for myself and stated the truth but there was no apology from that said person even after the fact and I think to that I may have to observe the third way… LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes, the third way is always best. Any hurt or anger you may have harbored within, let that go too. Easier said then done at times, I really really know. So I give you (((HUGS))) and say, I know you can do this too! Love, Amy LikeLiked by 1 person Yes you are right …the hurt and anger is still fresh and will take some to let go but eventually I know I will be letting go off that to be free of that negative energy I feel from this action…thank you my friend you love and hug means a lot today! love an hugs back ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person We are in this thing called Life together to help one another when in need, to Love one another no matter what, to encourage one another, and to be a friend always. (((HUGS)))) Amy … It’s going to be OK, Neha! LikeLiked by 1 person ❤ ❤ ❤ Yes 🙂 🙂 To friendship! LikeLiked by 1 person *tears of JOY* LikeLiked by 1 person Hugs back and thank you for sharing my friend ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person Reply You are more then welcome, Neha. LikeLike Neha, I made a post up for you. I’m not sure when it will be up but I will make sure you know about it. Hang in there. Love, Amy LikeLiked by 1 person aww thank you my sweet friend I will await your post ….I feel your love in my heart and it humbles and calms me 🙂 Thank you again for your support! ❤ Hugs! LikeLiked by 1 person This irks me to no end and I completely understand how you feel… One of my biggest peeves with my friendships and relationships is when people present themselves one way, then speak/act in another way. Dishonest, disloyalty, and questionable actions that tie into those values are deal breakers for me. If someone questions my loyalty, my honesty, my integrity, it in turns makes me question why I’m in that relationship to begin with. I agree completely with LadyPinkRose and typically follow those same steps. I stand up for myself, I confront the person immediately, and try to work through the situation. However, comments and actions that lead up to this kind of confrontation aren’t easily forgotten. Forgive, sure. But I’m (finally) at a stage in my life where I refuse to let myself be surrounded by negativity, and usually end up slowly backing away. It sucks, but sometimes cutting the strings with those individuals is the healthiest thing to do. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I actually had a fall out with a “friend” and fellow writer recently. I kept over analyzing what IIIIII had done wrong to cause the relationship to go in such a rapid, opposite direction. This individual preaches authenticity and integrity, and yet acts (and writes) in a completely different manner. After some serious cool-off time, I confronted her, said my piece, and have begun distancing myself. Why waste precious energy on people like that? For what it is worth, your writing (and thus, you) is some of the most honest and true work I have read here. XOXO LikeLiked by 1 person Reply aww thank you so much Christina for sharing that with me and your support…means a lot to me…this person was not a close friend by any means but when one questions integrity I cannot just not stand up for myself…which I did and there were no sentiments of remorse or apology expressed by that person even after the fact…I will certainly be cutting of the strings from my end…and it will be a learning experience for me…I do not think I will be forgetting this anytime soon haha but I will not let that person dictate what I do or how I feel…the anger is still fresh but I know I will let go of those feelings…Thank you again my friend it is much appreciated ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person You can also use that anger to write some great stuff! The poem “Lost Appreciation” that you reblogged was actually written when I was raging over that individual!! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person aah really? I can actually believe that…some of my best pieces have come from dark places or very happy places 🙂 😀 btw that was beautiful poetry! LikeLiked by 1 person Aww thanks! I agree, strong emotions one way or the other can yield some fantastic work! 😉 LikeLiked by 1 person I am also sorry that you had to face it, it is not a nice feeling and big hugs to you for taking it with such strides 🙂 LikeLike Reply Great post and comments! I love the picture. From personal experience I can understand how you feel. Some years ago my wife and I were working for the same institution. A newer employee leveled accusations against my wife, myself and others that resulted in the loss of our employment. We were stunned by the questioning of our integrity and the reactions to lies instead of facts. It took time but we healed, those who questioned our integrity were found to be wrong, and we moved on to far better things. In fact we have done better being out of the environment we were in. Sometimes one door closing does lead to much better things. That is the hope I keep in my heart. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you so much for sharing your kind words with me. I am sorry that it happened to you but glad that something better came off it…I too hope and keep the same sentiments in mind in this situation… I have already stood up for myself and will be cutting off ties with the said person. Thank you again and have a wonderful day! 🙂 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply You are most welcome. LikeLiked by 1 person Ohhhhhhh, so sorry to hear that Neha. I hope you’re feeling better. My hubby had something rough like this happen to him once. It’s not a very nice experience, is it? Anyhow, I’m sure you’ve learned a very valuable lesson. 🙂 ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I am feeling better but the hurt and anger is still fresh and will take a little while to heal…but definitely learnt a valuable lesson…thank you for your support my friend 🙂 ❤ and am sorry your hubby had to go through that 🙂 My best wishes to both of you! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person This message if wonderful and the photo of the blue skies and pretty leaves on branches made me cheerful tonight. Thanks so much! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply aww I am glad my friend 🙂 Have a great week! LikeLike Reply well if they matter to me, I will let them know they are way off base. If they don’t matter to me, I’ll ignore them. If they really matter to me, but play hit and run cutting me to the soul, I’ll write them angry poems till I get it out of my system – that may take years… esp. if they never say they are sorry. You have to follow your gut – what’s right for one may not be for another. When I really need hope, I watch this video or similar. Hope you feel better! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you so much for your words and I will perhaps be writing some angry/ hurt poems haha but that video really made me feel better and my heart smile 🙂 Thank you again for taking the time to comment much appreciated! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply you’re quite welcome! That can be very good therapy if you are a sensitive. I’m glad it made you smile. Remember some anger is an emotion that manifests when someone is directly effecting your well-being. It our way of protecting ourselves from those who are thoughtless, selfish, or incapable of any emotion at all. LikeLiked by 1 person Yes needed to hear that, and thanks again 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Neha, a beautiful picture and quote, although I’m terribly sorry for this unfortunate experience. I suppose many of us go through similar things. How horrible they are with no rhyme or reason to them! It seems you have found strength in rising above, however painful. On that simple deed you will be rewarded in the end. I have no doubt. Blessings, my friend. 🙏 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you so much my friend for your kind thoughts and support…Yes I hope to move past it and eventually let go of the anger and hurt it has caused me…Thank you again and much love and blessings to you ❤ ❤ LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email.